But remember that it is also your wife's choice to obey or disobey, and that you have no authority over her as a person, either. And he likes the idea of us raising our daughter with the values the Mormon church instills on their youth. He actually wanted them to be active in a religion and thought this was a good idea. What about the folks at church. With that being said, I have long considered myself just a tad outside super TBM since we watched Game of Thrones, drank energy drinks, and occasionally stayed in my running clothes sans garments to do yard work.
God knows the big picture. The first key question to as is: If the answer is yes then the relationship sounds like it's doomed. Harmony will prevail if the husband appreciates the value of church service and attendance. I'd just like to add that unless you're happy being with her as a full believing Mormon, don't stick around in the hopes that she'll de-convert. If she had to choose one issue to dedicate her life to, it would be gender equality. But we Always had time for each other. The important part of finding a partner to marry does not, in my opinion, revolve around whether or not you are of the same religion. It is an act of faith. There is no way she will may you without you going to the temple.
I work full time as well and have supported him throughout med school. It's a less common occurrence, but it happens. A lot of people are religious. It's really cool to be able to connect with someone who shares all of those things with me. Trust yourself, trust God and enjoy the beautiful relationship that you have. After all, when he IS around, he never makes them do anything they don't want to do, and he buys them expensive things to make up for being absent from their lives so much. Certainly there are such people in the church, but there are such people in any organization, and I would challenge you to remember that the members are also individuals with thoughts, feelings and the ability to rebel in their own ways. I don't really care if she's religious or not, unless she brings it up all the time or tries to convert me. My religious faith saved my sanity but I still worry.